Safe: A Sacred Inquiry
Unraveling Childhood Patterns in Adult Relationships
The truth of how powerful and transmuting our existence really is. …. and how much more we are expanded in connection with others- deserves more pause and applause than we allow.
Specifically, in partnership. I am in a Divine, Sacred partnership. We agreed from the start that there would be decisions made for us - between us - that might not make sense to others but are deeply aligned for us. That is the audacious love and assignment we were called to….
I love having these powerful, intimate alchemy sessions and diving deeper into our own gifts and channels with each other.
The way we can collapse timelines and accelerate our visions -collective manifestations, expanded through our auras and orating -even before the sensual climax.
This is just with our breath. Syncing. The quality and quantity of our communion with ourselves feels like an explosive shedding and merging of all that hangs in the balance of our heart scales all at once.
Last night, while releasing my pelvis internally, my partner reminded me of how magnetic, discerning, and alchemizing my energy is…. I’ve always been aware. My granny-girl prepared me for this….yet, still- I doubt the validity and worth of my vessel, sometimes.
Sometimes, my humanity feels more than it needs to…and I’m absorbing more than I’m observing. In those moments, I can make myself easily susceptible to outside influences. Including how safe I feel within myself concerning others.
So, while releasing and remembering….my partner offered me more of my truth in exchange for the fear I absorbed that’s not mine.
I know how deeply loveable AND likable I am. Like all of us, the smaller versions of ourselves surface to find evidence and tangible certainty that this truth remains. We expose ourselves in spirit and truth when we feel completely safe. At any moment something is said or done that triggers that switch of ‘questioning safety’; we, often, began to question our integrity to ourselves & safety first.
Gratitude, for the partnership. …for mirrors that enter our lives by way of friendship and lovers; children and family contracts; life partners and communal assignments in the earth: ….to remind us that we have every right to only give our full energy and attention to people, experiences, and spaces that allow us to feel SAFE.
The bottom line for us all, a lot of us are in a season of re-evaluating our non-negotiables. We are being invited to sit with aspects of our design and patterns that serve as imprints upon our soul. I recognize the pattern within the little version of myself and what happens if ‘little me’ doesn’t feel safe with you; she will mirror back to you (through my Gemini duality) the true essence of who you are; while shielding and protecting her sovereignty. What about you?
Do you know this feeling?
Are there people in your life who are familiar with the nature of your relating- loving-connecting?
Do you know your behavior and how differently you move around certain people and in certain spaces when you feel completely safe?
What about when you don’t feel safe?
Do you know what that evidence looks like?
Do you recognize how your pattern of safety might have shifted from childhood to your adult self now?
Can you list the people in your vortex that you feel the safest with…..?
Are you aware of whether or not they also feel safe with you?
Do you care- that others feel safe with you?
Receive Breath, here.
Allow yourself to sit with this sacred inquiry for a while. Without rushing to the answers. Feel. Breathe. Surrender.
Release Breath, here.
#gentlereminder
“I honor the sacred space within me, where safety and love coexist, allowing me to give and receive from a place of deep truth and unwavering sovereignty."
